Devastated by nature
It’s been eleven years since we rebuilt after a flood devastated our home. A lot of things are different: we only have three pieces of furniture left from before that time, color schemes are different, we changed our living room into a dining / living space, and now we are empty nesters.
Also, a lot of things are the same. We still have a lot of our décor because the flood waters only rose knee-high through out the house. More importantly, we still have the same atmosphere of home: love, peace, and acceptance of each other’s goofiness. Home is where we are free to be just exactly as we are. Home is our haven and our favorite place to be.
Devastated by health
Twenty-three years have passed since I received the devastating news from my husband’s doctor: “Your husband will never work again.”
I’ve said many times I could not have been more shocked had he walked up to me and slapped me in the face.
Since then, a lot has changed; and a lot is the same. I became the breadwinner. My part time gig has become full time. I’ve had to learn to manage my time. (No more getting lost in novels only to realize, hey! It’s dinner time and I haven’t started cooking yet!)
What has stayed the same is our commitment to our God and to each other. Yes, things have been financially tight many times; but we do what we have always done, pay our tithes, trust God, and it always works out.
Lessons learned
However, this series is about clearing out the clutter both physically and mentally that keeps us from having a rich and satisfying life. I can say the lessons learned from devastation has helped us see the abundant life we already have and motivates us to reclaim it and make it even better.
The flood taught us we had too much stuff. It also taught us not to grieve when possessions are lost. God always provides. We do not lack.
We discovered during Jim’s illness God is in control and He is with us even when it doesn’t feel like it. We have learned to walk by faith and not by sight.
Lest we might forget those lessons, last year we walked through open heart surgery and this year we’ll be walking through knee replacement. I fully expect God to provide and to be with us like He always has been and always will be.
A rich and satisfying life is knowing God is with you always.
For more info on a rich and satisfying life:
This is day eight of my series, “A Rich and Satisfying Life,” examining a life free from the clutter of both wrong thoughts, attitudes, expectations, and too-full calendars, as well as physical clutter. You can click here to see all the links to the series.
I’m joining a host of writers participating in a Write28Days challenge sponsored by Anita Ojeda. My life being what it is, I’m starting 3 days behind, but writing 28 days does not have to be defined by the month of February. I’m simply promising to write for 28 days. If life interrupts, as it often does, I may have to skip a day here and there. The goal is to write 28 times on my subject, “A Rich and Satisfying Life,” consecutively … or not!
All photos created in PicMonkey by Jerralea using personal, family and stock photos. Please do not copy.
I’m sharing this post at Let’s Have Coffee and Recharge Wednesday, Tune In Thursday
WOW! What extremes yet they are so real. Often we do not look at our lives over long period of time nor from rugged to smooth, from terrible to praiseworthy all in the same breath. Thank you for reminding me to see all in the eyes of our God in order to realize just Who our God is.
Jerralea, I love the perspectives you share here. Things change, but some things stay the same in the midst of change. I loved reading a little more about your life. It sounds like you and your husband have a solid marriage based on your relationships with Jesus. What a beautiful testimony! You are right, when tragedy strikes, we can see more clearly how much we truly have . . . and it’s not all in the physical realm.
I appreciate your vulnerability and I feel like I know you a little better. You and your husband have a precious marriage union. This is so true, Jerralea, “A rich and satisfying life is knowing God is with you always.”
Hello Jerralea,
Things come, things go
Life stays the same, Life changes
In the midst of it all, Jesus remains a consistent presence. Jesus, he’s forever the same, omnipotent he reigns. Blessings to you and your husband as you draw closer to each other no matter which way the wind blows.
You are so right. There is nothing like adversity to uncover truths and grow our faith. And I loved what the Holy Spirit whispered to you!
Jerralea your perspectives are fabulous. So often we look at only what was lost, not what was retained or the positive changes that took place because of an unexpected tragedy. What a blessing to read how God worked in your lives!